It's been a long time since I've written. A really long time. Holidays have passed, trips have passed, the kids have been in and out of school and back in. I feel bad. Bad for not writing, bad for not keeping everybody current on what we are up to, bad for not putting all the stories down. But here's the thing. When I started this blog it was because I needed a place to vent. To tell all my crazy stories of the things that the kids did. Stories that wouldn't be important in six weeks or six months or six years, but were really important to me at that time. I was drowning in diapers and babies and pysical therapy and doctor visits and trying to fix everything all while being sleep deprived and not understanding the joy of lattes.
Now that Amanda is in school full time my perspective and frustration level has changed. The kids are older and a little more mature and sometimes I can even reason with them and they have empathy and everything is flowing harmoniously most of the time. Yes, they still drive me crazy on a weekly basis, but it works itself out so much easier and occasionally they recognize what they've done and apologize. And yes, Charlie still travels more than I would like because I miss him and love him but now the kids can get themselves dressed and brush their own teeth and get their own breakfast and I'm kind of there to assist rather than do it all.
I was telling Charlie last night that I like my 40s so much more than my 30s because now I can rediscover who I am and I'm not in crisis mode all the time and we can just all work together as a family. So I've been quiet over the last month or so because I don't have a lot of crazy stories to tell and we've just been enjoying time together and because other than May, December is the most crazy and time consuming month of the year for me, making all the Merry happen, that at the end of the day I don't want to sit down and write about it. Sometimes I want to write about it in the middle of the day or when I'm in my car, but by the time the kids are in bed and everything is quite I don't want to get off the couch and tell you about it.
So I've sat. For over six weeks. But now I'm sad that I don't have a recount of what we did, besides enjoy our time together, because I hope that one day the kids (when they have kids of their own and have an excellent perspective) can look back at this blog and understand me a little better and everything I did for them and with them. To understand where I was coming from and realize how much I truly love them, no matter how much they drive me crazy. This thought, as well as the fact that Andy only has five short years left with us, gives me a renewed interest in sharing our stories with you and getting them out there. As well as the fact that every time I talk to my mom she tells me how much she loves my blog.
Even though I hate recaps, I will just say that we had a very busy, but lovely, December. As always we had a fantastic time seeing family and friends in Miami over Thanksgiving and are so glad that we have that time with them. We wish we could see them more. We came home to a decorated house, which relieved a lot of stress for me, and jumped into baking and gift creating for all the elementary school teachers. Andy's teachers got shut out this year now that he's in middle school, but I am okay with that. We got a little crafty this year and the girls and I made ornaments where you pour paint inside and swirl it around. They turned out great and we kept a few of our favorites for ourselves and gave even more away. I took Sarah on a fun and amazing trip to New York the second weekend of December. I took Andy when he was seven so Sarah was way past due. It happened to be an unseasonably warm weekend for December so we walked almost everywhere and we had a great time seeing the Rockettes and a Broadway show (Matilda) and visiting the Empire State Building, the Peanuts windows at Macy's and the top of the Rockafeller Center. We also got a bonus day with April from New Jersey and got the meet the newest addition to their family, the adorable Alara. Hopefully it will be a weekend Sarah never forgets.
We didn't do anything else spectacular in December, just hung out, had Hanukkah and Christmas at home and then Christmas with my family in Michigan. We came home with a few days to spare, rang in the New Year with friends and the kids went back to school last week. December in a nutshell.
So I will make more of an effort to share, the good and the bad and the boring, so we will have a little record of what goes on in our lives. All I can tell you is that right now I feel very blessed with where we are in our lives, with our family and friends and where we live, and I hope the shit doesn't hit the fan.
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