Over the weekend I went to New Jersey for April's 40th birthday party. She is one of my BFFs from college and it amazing to us both that we have known each other for over 20 years. Our other BFF, Renee, joined us as well. We stayed up late, ate and drank a lot, teased each other, told stories and when we ran out of things to say just sat there contentedly in silence together. An amazing escape from reality with two of my favorite people.
While I was there, the one thing I noticed was how quiet it was. April only has one little boy who is Amanda's age. Although he cried a little and talked some, it seemed like nothing compared to my kids. Possibly it was because he was a little shy with so many new people in the house or maybe he really is just that quiet. April is coming to Texas in April so I had to warn her, my house is not that quiet. I'm sure she will enjoy the chaos for the few days she is here, but will be glad to leave when the visit is over. Of course, she is a pre-K teacher, so she's used to crazy, loud kids.
I got home Monday afternoon extremely tired and groggy from too much fun, and then moved right into the week. Charlie left for a business trip the next morning and then I had to get back to reality. I am finally finding a few minutes to write and I have a little person standing next to me who keeps asking relentlessly for an Airhead (candy kind of like taffy) that she is not going to get.
Not that I didn't miss the candy eaters (which to be honest I really wasn't gone long enough to truly miss), but it is wonderful beyond words to be able to get away and be me for a couple of days without anybody relying on my services to help them get through their day. Plus, listening to my friends share stories about their kids helps me come back and be a better mom. Relax, destress, gain perspective and patience.
For my the good of my kids I really need to go on more of these trips. I'm sure Charlie agrees, especially he gets to come with me.
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